Artist Michael John Bobak on Practicing Outside the Comfort Zone
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“All progress takes place outside the comfort zone.”Michael John Bobak
To learn and grow most quickly, we can seek the very edge of our current ability.
To practice, we need to find challenge, but not too much challenge. It needs to be hard, but not too hard. We should be able to succeed, but only if we give our complete attention and energy.
When the challenge is too easy, we become bored. This often happens when we play guitar only for fun.
While it’s great to play for relaxation and entertainment, this only goes so far. Eventually, we grow tired of doing the “same old stuff”. Without proper challenge, we don’t enjoy it as much as we could.
So we need meaningful work. We need to strive and stretch. We need ride the edge, and not know for certain whether we’ll succeed or not. It’s this element of danger that brings the thrill.
But what do we do when we go too far outside of our comfort zone? We may feel overwhelmed. We may get discouraged. We may feel hopeless or defeated.
When this happens, we need only take a short break.
Marcus Aurelius wrote about this in his personal journal:
“Nowhere you can go is more peaceful, more free of interruptions, than your own soul…Retreat to consult your own soul and then return to face what awaits you.”
Then, as we can, we can flirt with the other side of the ledge.
Over time, as we meet challenge after challenge, we push our abilities further and further. We get better. What used to be impossible becomes our new comfort zone. And so we find new challenges.
By learning this way, music never becomes easier. It’s always hard. But the challenges change. They become greater and we are more able to meet them. We play at a higher level.
But learning at any level, from beginner to master, feels about the same, so long as we stay just outside the comfort zone.
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