Chinese Curse – May You Live in Interesting Times

Tuesday Quotes are short explorations of music, life, and the daily endeavor of practicing classical guitar. Find more here. Enjoy!

“May you live in interesting times.”

Old Chinese Curse

“Interesting”, in this ironic curse, is a euphemism for “hard” or “challenging”.

And indeed, we usually view difficulty as a curse. We avoid it. We try our best to prevent it.

But it’s often through hardship and trial that we gain the best returns.

Elite performers, in every field, seek out obstacles. They tackle the big problems. They climb the craggiest mountains.

And this is what makes them elite. This is the recipe to rise to such levels. We choose the paths with the greatest potential for growth.

But it’s not the task itself that polishes our abilities and strengthens our core. Instead, it’s who we must be and become to face such adversity.

Head to head with a hurdle, we must manage our thoughts, attention and energy. We must focus. We must try, in full awareness that we may fail. All the while dodging the quicksand of worry, fear and disbelief.

It’s tempting to dismiss superior performance as something other people do. We may not always realize that it’s possible for us, now, sitting in our chairs holding our guitars.

But this is where it happens. At any level, at any age, in any timeframe.

Working on the tricky bits in our pieces, training our hands, forcing recall of new notes. It’s in these moments we improve and progress.

Playing the “finished” piece is fun and rewarding. But even more so when we’ve worked for it. It’s the barriers broken that let us feel the pride of a job well done.

So one of our primary tasks as musicians is to keep practice interesting. To go straight for the edge of comfort. To find that balance of “hard but not too hard”, and stay there.

Allen Mathews

Hi, I’m Allen Mathews. 

I started as a folk guitarist, then fell in love with classical guitar in my 20’s. Despite a lot of practice and schooling, I still couldn’t get my music to flow well. I struggled with excess tension. My music sounded forced. And my hands and body were often sore. I got frustrated, and couldn’t see the way forward. Then, over the next decade, I studied with two stellar teachers – one focused on the technical, and one on the musical (he was a concert pianist). In time, I came to discover a new set of formulas and movements. These brought new life and vitality to my practice. Now I help guitarists find more comfort and flow in their music, so they play more beautifully. Click here for a sample formula.

Great advise here. I find I am taking more time with the pieces than I would have in the past as I am focusing on the technique you have taught me. It is slower going at first but has fewer frustrations, is easier and sounds better in the end.

-Karen Richardson

Allen Mathews was recommended to me as somebody who could help me expand my guitar vocabulary.  Allen started me on a really fun cycle of lessons and practice.  He is a very good,and very enthusiastic teacher, and I feel that I'm on the road to learning.  I couldn't be more pleased with my experience.

-Peter Buck (r.e.m.)

Become a Member and Play More, Beautifully!

“The basics are the basics, and you can’t beat the basics.”
Charles Poliquin

Join the program that takes you from the beginning fundamentals to advanced mastery, so you…1

  • Move your hands safely and fluidly
  • Enjoy fulfilling practices and meaningful work
  • Play beautifully with expression and flow

Click the button to take a step towards an
organized, effective guitar practice. >>>

Featured Courses

jesu bach classical guitar

Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring – Bach

One of the best loved of all classical pieces.

See more...

read music guitar high positions notes

Play and Read Music in the Higher Positions

Learn to read music and identify notes on the entire neck.

See more...

how to play segovia scales

Better Technique, with “Segovia’s Favorite Scales”

Detailed explorations of this popular technical tool.

See more...

« » page 1 / 2